best man : groom’s maid, huh?
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saiyed called me up, asking me to meet him at midvalley (urgh, parking is darn expensive during the weekend, duh!), then I asked him why for the meet? he said just need to talk.. I was at home when he called, taking a short rest after doing some of my math calculation (for exam preparation), and just so you know, he just got me on time when I really need to chill out.
then we met, and he asked me to be the groom’s maid (pengapit) for his wedding, I was like, “huh!”.. what in the world came to his mind that I must be the one? I was blurred for a moment, thinking of the function of a groom’s maid, and I cant think of any but to stand aside of the groom during the wedding ceremory (bersanding) and nothing more.. now, shall I reject the request or just go for it? he keep saying that I am the only one who will suit the possition during the ceremory since all of his other friends are either bigger, taller, fairer and so on.. while me keep telling him that I need some time to think about it. lol should I take it?
not that I do not want to take it, but I just need time to think of it… yes, or no?
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10 Comments, Comment or Ping
teddY
It’s a very personal decision, and I’m sorry that I couldn’t, in my own capacity, to give you any advice on the decision-making part. But don’t worry too much, just follow what your heart says and listen to your subconscious thought - it’s quite accurate
it’s a one of a lifetime experience, so it’s quite advisable that you grab that chance, unless the wedding date falls somewhere in the midst of your exams, that is.
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May 11th, 2008
Shen
Hmmm that’s a tough decision. I’m sure you will make the right one and it’ll go well if you do decide to go. I have a hard time rejecting offers like that. No is a word that’s hard for me to say to others.
May 11th, 2008
uner
teddy : once of a lifetime experience and that was the point I was referring to when I said yes
shen : you are just right, no is kinda a hardest word..
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May 11th, 2008
Amarilys
Hmmm…I think it depends. If it doesn’t get in the way of anything in your life, and if he’s a good friend then I don’t see why not. It might be fun
May 11th, 2008
fuxane
hye. thanks for dropping by my blog.
as for this entry, pengapit plays quite a big role of the ceremony. u not only have to mengipas-ngipas the pengantin but have to get yourself make up and dress up nicely. its a good experience though…. take it as a practice before your marriage
May 11th, 2008
fuqaha
Id say yes. True to what Fuxane said, bestman plays a big role. Frankly, should I were asked the same question, ill nod without any hesitation, for to be chosen is an honor.
=)
May 11th, 2008
uner
amarilys : i’m expecting fun
yay~!
fuxane : it’s my pleasure
oh, practice? haha that will be an interesting point to look at…
fuqaha : it truely is an honor..
May 11th, 2008
Aisyah
hmm.. just go for it, dude. i mean, being displayed like that. some girls might notice you and who knows what will happen. LOL.
right, not the best reason. haha
Aisyah’s last blog post..the. gig. was. fun. uyeeh.
May 13th, 2008
xmindfreakx
hey ya..
accept it bro.its a precious xp.be his pengapit.while in the sanding time,keep on looking and smiling to the hot babes.sure they will notice u.
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May 14th, 2008
uner
aisyah & xmindfreakx : whoa you guys really makes me excited eh? it’s ok, I’m being cool now, and yeah who knows? haha..
May 14th, 2008
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